Makemake au i ka launa pū ʻana me nā kāne lōʻihi, akā i kēia manawa ke koi aku nei au i nā wahine e hoʻomaka e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe
I kēia pule, ua ʻōlelo ka mea hana keaka ʻo Jameela Jamil makemake ʻo ia e ʻike i nā stereotypes kaʻawale ma ka pale.Ma kahi o ka maʻamau conventionally-uʻi-wahine-hui-conventionally-uʻi-kanaka trope, makemake ia e ike i ke aloha ma waena o hiki-kino a me ke kino huapalapala, hui-hui aloha a, no ke aha la, kiʻekiʻe wahine me ka pōkole kane.
Me ka hilahila nui ke ʻae nei au i kekahi o kēlā mau wahine: ʻo ka poʻe e hoʻoholo i ka nani o ka hoa pili e like me kona kiʻekiʻe.ʻO kaʻu bio dating pūnaewele kahiko i lawe i ka huaʻōlelo "ʻeono kapuaʻi a ma luna wale nō".
Hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokaʻawale iaʻu iho mai koʻu hoʻohilahila kiʻekiʻe ma ka haʻi ʻana iā ʻoe he 99.9% o kaʻu mau hoaaloha ma lalo o 6ft (ma ke ʻano like me nā racists e hōʻike pinepine nei "akā he hoaaloha ʻeleʻele koʻu!") akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua kau inoa wau ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mantra.
Me he mea lā he mau mōʻī pōkole – ka inoa pipi o ka pūnaewele no nā kāne pōkole – he manawa.Mai ka wā i hoʻokumu ai ka mea hoʻokani mele ʻo Jaboukie Young-White i ka huaʻōlelo ma 2018 ("Ua kūpono mākou. Ua ikaika mākou. Aia mākou ma kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa o ka maʻi maʻi puʻuwai," ua ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia ma Twitter) ua nui ka manawa e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana i nā kāne pōkole. makemake ʻia.No ke aha ʻaʻole e hoʻonui i kēia ʻae ʻana i nā kāne pōkole i ka pale nui?
Ma ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me ka media makemake wau e ʻike i nā kāne pōkole me nā wahine lōʻihi.Makemake au i ke aloha intertrans.Makemake au i nā wahine ʻeleʻele me nā kāne ʻili keʻokeʻo/māmā.Makemake au i nā kāne ʻAsia me nā wahine keʻokeʻo.Makemake au i nā kāne wiwi me nā wahine momona.Makemake au e ʻike i ke kino me ke kino kīnā.Luhi i ka launa pū ʻana.❤️
ʻĀnō, ʻike wau i ka mea a ʻoukou e noʻonoʻo nei - aia ka pōloli o ka ʻokoʻa ma ka pale, ʻo kēia paha ka puʻu a mākou e make ai?Akā e noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kēia: ʻo kā mākou nānā ʻana i nā kāne lōʻihi e pili ana i ka patriarchy.
E kiʻi i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni kahi e ʻike ʻia ai nā kāne like ʻole.Ma Shallow Hal, ʻo Gwyneth Paltrow (5ft 9in) nā hale kiaʻi ma luna o Jack Black (5ft 6in).ʻO ka manaʻo o kēlā kiʻiʻoniʻoni (hiki ke kāne i ka hypnotized no laila ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻike e pili ana ʻo ia me kahi wahine ʻoi aku ka momona) e haʻi mai iā mākou i kekahi mea e pili ana i nā lula o ka hoʻokipa ʻana i ka honua patriarchal: hiki i ke kāne pōkole ke pili i kahi wahine lōʻihi, akā inā he momona. (a ua hoʻopunipuni ʻia ʻo ia).
Ma ka Hunger Games, hoʻokani ʻo Jennifer Lawrence (5ft 9in) iā Katniss Everdeen, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma mua o kāna hoa kāne, ʻo Peeta Mellark (Josh Hutcherson, 5ft 7in).He palupalu ke ʻano o Peeta: he kahu palaoa ʻo ia i hūnā mai ka hakakā ʻana ma mua o ke alo.ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻokūkū me ka hoa aloha ʻo Everdeen ʻo Gale (Liam Hemsworth, 6ft 3in) nāna e ʻimi a puhi i nā mea.I ka pau ʻana o ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni, pepehi ʻole ʻo Gale i ke kaikuahine o Katniss, ʻo ia paha kahi haʻawina iā mākou āpau e pili ana i ke kāne ʻona.
Inā ʻo ka pilikia me ke kāne ʻawaʻawa ʻo ia ka mea hoʻomana i nā kāne no nā mea āpau e pili ana i ke kāne me ka ʻole o ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana iā ia - ka hana ʻino, ka machismo, ka hilinaʻi - no ke aha e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai i ke kiʻekiʻe i kēia hoohalike?
Hoʻohālikelike nā kānaka (a hewa ʻole) ke kiʻekiʻe me ke kāne.ʻO nā kāne i ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi e hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia, uku nui ʻia a manaʻo ʻia he alakaʻi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.He awelika ke kiʻekiʻe o nā CEO ma luna o 6ft.ʻOi aku ka makemake o nā moho Peresidena i ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi (koe wale nō ma Palani, me he mea lā).
E hele mai, e nā wahine: ʻaʻole e hoʻohaumia i kā mākou kumu, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻokiʻekiʻe ai.ʻAʻole ʻo Patriarchy kahi maʻamau e hoʻopaʻa ai i nā wahine, he maʻamau ia e hoʻopaʻa i nā mea a pau.I kēia makahiki, e ʻike kākou i ka waiwai o nā mōʻī pōkole.
Ka manawa hoʻouna: Jan-19-2020